The unfortunate and uneasy question you need to answer is what to do about blackmail and how to stop sextortion. The solution begins with you making all of your social media private. 

It is essential to take inventory of what the extortionist knows about you. Do they know your actual identity, email address, mobile number, work, and family information?

What you don't do is ignore or block them from communications. By doing so, you lose all control of the situation, and the blackmailers may post your info online. Six months down the road, you might discover the compromised content or someone you know could.

Never pay a blackmailer? If you do, it will make matters worse. They will keep coming back until they bleed you dry. Some scammers trick victims; after they send a Western Union payment, the scammer demands a photo of the transfer, which displays a name and address. Now they know exactly who you are and where you live. In relationship blackmail, funds paid can be used as blackmail itself.

The big question is, will a blackmailer expose. No one but the blackmailer knows for sure; in my experience, they "usually" do not. They know that if they do, they have no leverage. The problem is blackmailers harass, and tend not to go away.

The actual problem is they do not go away; whether you pay them or not, they keep coming back. Besides protecting from exposure, you need to get rid of them, which I do with the use of deception. 

A consultation involves us speaking or email, whichever is best for you. I listen to your situation and explain how I stop blackmail using various forms of deception.

After our initial consultation, you can take my suggestions and put them to work on your own. Or, I provide an extended consulting service where I guide and assist you until the blackmailers are gone. 

In extreme cases, or to protect one's online/offline identity, work, and family Frank creates online disinformation for the ultimate protection and privacy.