Help For Sextortion

Think Before You Act

If You Pay

The blackmailer will try to bleed you dry.

If You Do Not Pay

They may or may not release the material.

Assess The Situation

What do they know about you? 

Slow Down

Think with your head, not your emotions.

Short Term Action

Shut down your online information.

Long Term Action

Damage control

Help With Blackmail

Help With Sextortion

What To Do About Blackmail

Being blackmailed will shake you to the core. However, you must get a grip, be strong, and do not think like a victim but a strategist. This short video can help provide some insight as to what is going to happen. 

Relationship Blackmail

Relationship blackmail is when you let the person into your life, like an escort into a your hotel room or home; another is when you had an affair with an individual. Relationship blackmail can be dangerous, since it borders stalking.

What Do They Know?

Additional Information

 What They Know Determines The Strategy

  • Did you send a video or photo?
  • Did you involve yourself on camera?
  • Is it a face photo?
  • Is the background identifiable?
  • Do they know your name?
  • Do they have your mobile number?
  • Do they have your email address?
  • Do they know your social media?
  • Do they know your employment?
  • Do they know your family?


What To Do About Blackmail

Blackmail Consultation (UK)

Pay with PayPal or a debit/credit card

Most Backmailers want a quick payment, and so they promise they will destroy everything after the funds are received. Paying a sextortionist never works out in your favor, and it will only be a matter of time before you have no choice but to say no. However, there are right and wrong ways to say no. 

I embrace the strategy of avoidance, which gives me time to assess the seriousness of the scammer. Plus, it brings us in the direction of you not saying no but squeaking out of the situation without sending money.

After you prepay the consultation, email me at and let me know how you want to communicate, email, phone, WhatsApp, or video.

Frank M. Ahearn combats blackmail

Damage Controlt

Digital Disinformation

Sextortionist do not always go away, much of the times they lay low, and resurface. Therefore, you must consider long term protection and damage control. Especially is they have information like your mobile number, email address, social sites, employment, or information about your friends and family. The strategy of digital disinformation protects you from potential disaster.

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